Forgiveness. Immediate and Unconditional.
I never resist telling Jesus my problems, or admitting my sins to him, because he is patient and friendly and known for his forgiveness.
But every time I tell another Christian, there is always some kind of formula or process or preconceived judgment that you are expected to experience before “forgiveness” is granted.
And never think for a moment that non-believers are not watching how we treat each other. Forgiveness is to be immediate and unconditional. It’s a Jesus thing.